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Your Child Deserves the Right Support - You Deserve a Clear Path Forward

Helping overwhelmed parents of young children navigate IEPs, evaluations, and school services with clarity and confidence. Get compassionate, behind-the-scenes support from a licensed educational psychologist who’s also a parent of a neurodivergent child. One well-prepared IEP meeting can change everything.

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You want answers, support, and a plan. You want to know if your child’s struggles are “normal” or need more help. You want someone who can translate all the education jargon and actually listen to your concerns.

I help parents of preschool and elementary-age children navigate the IEP process with clarity and confidence — even if you’re still wondering whether something more is going on.

Whether your child is struggling with behavior, sensory needs, language, or learning, I provide thoughtful evaluations and behind-the-scenes advocacy support so you can make informed decisions — with or without a diagnosis.

Your child deserves early support, and you deserve to feel confident, informed, and empowered every step of the way.

  • Clear next steps, tailored to your child’s unique needs

  • Coaching that helps you speak up in school meetings with clarity and confidence

  • Thoughtful guidance from someone who truly understands this process

  • Reassurance that you’re not missing anything important

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You're not behind. You just haven't had the right support yet - and that's what I'm here for.

Services I offer

Preschool Autism, ADHD, & Anxiety Educational Evaluation

Worried about your preschooler’s development?
Preschool assessments (for ages 2.6-5 years old) rooted in warmth, clarity, and developmental understanding. Get a trauma-informed, parent-sensitive developmental evaluation for autism, ADHD, anxiety, or learning concerns — with a clear written report you can share with your child’s school or keep for your own peace of mind.

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Parent Advocacy Service for IEPs and 504 Plans

One-on-one support to review IEPs, prepare for meetings, and walk through next steps—with written recommendations and practical prep.

What Makes This Different?

I don’t attend IEP meetings—and that’s on purpose.


My services focus on advocacy skill building: helping you prepare, plan, and show up with clarity and confidence, so you feel ready to speak up on behalf of your child—not just once, but again and again.

You don’t need someone to take over.
You need someone in your corner.

This is advocacy skill building for parents who want to lead with clarity—and stay grounded along the way.

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The ABC of the IEP: Field Notes for Parents - Podcast Coming Soon

Special education can feel overwhelming - but it doesn't have to. I'm launching a short, approachable podcast designed to help parents like you navigate the IEP process with more clarity, confidence, and insider perspective.

Think of it as a weekly coffee chat with a knowledgeable friend - honest, down-to-earth, and focused on giving you practical tips without the overwhelm.

Stay tuned - your new go-to for IEP support is on its way.

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Licensed Educational Psychologist | Parent Advocate | Early Childhood Specialist

Hi I'm Monica Trost, a licensed educational psychologist and a parent of a neurodivergent child. I know first hand how overwhelming it can feel to navigate the special education system; especially, when all you want is for your child to feel understood, supported, and seen.

With over ten years of experience in public schools, I've sat at hundreds of IEP tables and supported families through the evaluation, eligibility decisions, and service plans. But it wasn't until I became a parent myself that I truly felt the urgency and emotional weight so many families carry.

That lived experience, combined with my professional training, shapes the way I show up: with empathy, clarity, and deep respect for each family's unique journey.

Whether you're seeking clarity about preschool eligibility, preparing for a challenging IEP meeting, or simply trying to make sense of what your child needs, I'm here to support you with care and without judgement.

I serve families across California virtually, and offer in-person evaluations in Walnut Creek, California.

We're in this together - I'll help you navigate it

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Baby's hand holding an adult finger - representing the care, connection, and step-by-step advocacy support parents receive through Prepared Parent Advocate.
Photo of Monica, special education advocate, providing virtual support and peace of mind to parents navigating IEPs and services.

Clarity and Support

We begin with a mini consultation or full coaching session to understand your concerns and your child’s unique needs. You'll leave with clarity and a clear direction for what to do next.

Take Action Together

Whether it’s preparing for an IEP, reviewing evaluations, or considering an assessment, we'll create a personalized plan to help you move forward with confidence.

Feel Empowered

You'll walk away with advocacy tools, peace of mind, and the reassurance that you're no longer in this alone. You'll feel heard, supported, and ready for what's next.

Support For Preschool Evaluations and IEPs

Not sure how to request a preschool assessment from your school district? Not sure if your child needs help yet? You don’t need to wait for a diagnosis to take the first step. I'm here to help you understand your rights and guide you through the process step-by-step.

Let’s work together to make sure your child gets the support they deserve.

Testimonials

A glimpse into the kind of steady, thoughtful support I offer families.